Merry Christmas

This is the time, place, and season to be with the one you love. Share with family, friends, and people that need a little bit of love. I can't think of a better way to do Christmas without being around things you love. So Merry Christmas to you, my friends and those you love around you.

Love is Great

You know some of my friends bet that I have hated a teacher when he grabbed my shirt to my neck and order me to get in line. Or ask don't I hate that person who tell nothing but lies? My friends even ask if i ever return the hate back to a racist person who use the "N" word to my face.
I found all this funny because I can't never hate someone. I can only hate what they done to me but I refuse to hate someone. It's not my style.
Love the greatest gift from God Himself. If there wasn't love in the world, you can't possible imagine how the world would turn out. Hate stand against everything love stands for. So who am I to against the greatest gift of all?

Take Time to Realize (Part 3)

Jealously is another killer in the relationship. I’ve seen jealousy torn people so far apart. The face of jealously take over all feelings or confusion. It takes so many roles in the relationship. One role play if one is doing all of the giving in a big way but only receive so little. That role can be jealous because of the unfairness of sharing. Or the other way around the role can receive so much but doesn’t have much to give. The role can take a toll and feel it’s not right regardless the other one is giving without any return. The only way to beat this is to take whatever is little you have and multiple it by a hundred. Because you have some whom you love and doing all what is necessary to make relationship work. Take time to realize what you have in front of you, rather it big or small, and take precious of what you have that no one can take from you.

It's okay to step out of love

Ever feel there is something wrong or feel confused in the relationship? Times to times you hear friends saying he/she is no good for you? Or you hear he/she is doing something wrong? Later you would hear them talking about what you should do with the one you love. Some say you should spank your child; other say put the child in time-out. What about your family those treat you the wrong way? You may hear other people say talk to them, ignore them or leave them. You might feel confused what to do with your family. Friends or lovers could treat you wrong too. They put you in a position where you have to take action. The actions are acceptance/forgiveness or sadly rejection. So you have to step out of love for a minute just to see what is wrong with the relationship between you and the one you love. You would have to see what is like in other people's eyes to see if their wrongs can be fixed and how to fix it. I know the one you love is like no others and you might think they can't see what you see. You have the opportunity to see your side and their side to compare. You can decide which is best. I know it feel good to stay in love all the time but it wouldn't hurt to step out of love for a minute just to sight of your relationship.

Take Time to Realize (Part 2)

Selfishness is an approach of failure to show the importance meaning of love. Selfishness shows only individuals side instead of partnership. It separate one’s thoughts or actions from the others, regardless what the others’ thoughts or feelings is about. It can only please one side all the time as long selfishness is within. If you want your side and the other side to be happy you’re going have to share with whatever you have to offer in order to please both sides. One can’t receive if the other side is doing only receiving and not giving. Both sides should be able to give their sharing part onto one another. If I see someone who doing dishes, laundry, or cooking all the time, I would take turn and play their role for a while. Sharing is about not thinking of oneself but for others. So take time to realize sharing is one of the essentials of love in the relationship.

Take Time to Realize (Part 1 cont.)

When someone has a heart attack, the doctor will do what they can to nurture the heart. You would have to learn how to take care of your heart to prevent from another heart attack. Patient is like your heartbeat. If you don’t take care of it or prevent heartache then it could cause trouble in the future.

To the man, when your woman expresses their feeling of pain or dissatisfaction, take time to listen to her. Respond to her in a serenity manner. Value her feelings and let her know what you think, respectively.

To the woman, when your man makes careless mistake or poor decisions, take time to help him understand why feel upset. Don’t hesitate to correct his mistakes verbally. Let him knows you’re by his side to assist him to make a better decisions in the future.

Take time to realize when patience comes to you, it will light up everything around you.

"We could never learn to be brave and patient, if there were only joy in the world."
--Helen Keller