Conditional love and Unconditional love

Conditional love is a sole love that shares a changing or limited love from one to another. Conditional love can show feeling that is possible to change one moment to the next moment. It is not necessary a steady love where emotions of love stay the same. It may have reason to love more or less. It can change from a certain events or even doubtful reasons to lead with more or lesser love than before. Sometime there is not a given reason to love more or less. As I mentioned earlier, conditional love is also a limited type of love. At any given period of time or moment, one can stop their love with or no reason at all. This kind of love can remain the same but could not last forever. Limited conditional love does not always crease to love, but can also choose their preferences toward another one. For example, one can have a strong desire or need for look, race, belief, or even culture. This love excluded all the possibilities for another looks, races, beliefs, or cultures that is different from one’s preferences. One can also feel jealously or hate within this conditional love.

One good thing about conditional love, it can change into unconditional love. However, unconditional love cannot change into conditional love. You can grow love more and more conditionally but not with unconditional love. You can have more and more reasons to love with unconditional love but the love is still the same. Most people called this unconditional love the truest and most pure kind of love because it never change and it last forever. This love does not judge one’s look, race, belief, or culture. Instead, this love looked beyond that. Unconditional love is the kind of love that does not need to be work on or build up more on love. It has no ups or downs on love, regardless of whatever happen between any periods of time.

[As being as strong as death itself..it cannot be killed by time or disaster; it cannot be bought ... not even by the richest king! It must be accepted as a gift from God and then shared within the guidelines that God provides: striving to make your love a reflection of the perfect love that comes from God himself. There are so many types of love but the truest, purest,unconditional, most faithful love is that love of God and that is "agape love".-- Diane Norvell ]

Good guys don't always get the girl

Come to realize good guys get more rejections than bad guys. For those who realized that, may often questioned themselves shouldn't it be the other way around? Others may want to know why is that or is it true? How many time have you seen a nerdy guy walk up to a beautiful girl and get an instant rejection? Or have you seen a good looking couple end up in a bad break up? So why do bad guys get the girls before good guys do? Here's the problem.

Bad boys tend to know the girls weakness. They would talk to this girl and try to finding their weakness and tend to abuse their weakness sooner or later. They will do whatever it take to get the girl but end up messing up the relationship. For an example, they would make a girl laugh, or smile to get their attention. The girls weakness is to believe that guy is good enough to make her smile. But it can sometime mean not good enough to make it last. That would be the girls weakness that guy can abuse it on the later run. They do whatever they can to get you but stop doing it in the long run.

Good guys usually make a bad impression. They could be shy, nervous, or even clumsy. Sadly for girls, 1st bad impression are usual the last impression. A shy guy walked up to a girl, suddenly he stuttered and begin to blushed. The girls friends could be laughing at him thinking that was funny. Or a guy tripped on the steps trying to talk to the girl. They could automatically get rejection because of that. Solutions to both problem?

Girls play hard to get with all of guys. The one that keep coming to you and trying is usually the one that want you the most. Good guys.. keep going, keep practicing, and don't give up. Bad guys, get lost. Seriously.