Thursday, September 10, 2009

Conditional love and Unconditional love


Conditional love is a sole love that shares a changing or limited love from one to another. Conditional love can show feeling that is possible to change one moment to the next moment. It is not necessary a steady love where emotions of love stay the same. It may have reason to love more or less. It can change from a certain events or even doubtful reasons to lead with more or lesser love than before. Sometime there is not a given reason to love more or less. As I mentioned earlier, conditional love is also a limited type of love. At any given period of time or moment, one can stop their love with or no reason at all. This kind of love can remain the same but could not last forever. Limited conditional love does not always crease to love, but can also choose their preferences toward another one. For example, one can have a strong desire or need for look, race, belief, or even culture. This love excluded all the possibilities for another looks, races, beliefs, or cultures that is different from one’s preferences. One can also feel jealously or hate within this conditional love.


One good thing about conditional love, it can change into unconditional love. However, unconditional love cannot change into conditional love. You can grow love more and more conditionally but not with unconditional love. You can have more and more reasons to love with unconditional love but the love is still the same. Most people called this unconditional love the truest and most pure kind of love because it never change and it last forever. This love does not judge one’s look, race, belief, or culture. Instead, this love looked beyond that. Unconditional love is the kind of love that does not need to be work on or build up more on love. It has no ups or downs on love, regardless of whatever happen between any periods of time.


[As being as strong as death itself..it cannot be killed by time or disaster; it cannot be bought ... not even by the richest king! It must be accepted as a gift from God and then shared within the guidelines that God provides: striving to make your love a reflection of the perfect love that comes from God himself. There are so many types of love but the truest, purest,unconditional, most faithful love is that love of God and that is "agape love".-- Diane Norvell ]

2 comments:

  1. Wow... I think I was you in a previous life... Good job with the "labels" and the content. Now start bringing more of you - or others into this - give examples, either from personal or others' experiences - those examples bring validity to your ideas in the eyes of your readers. Keep it up!

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  2. You have done a very wonderful job! jeep it up and you will be popular bedore you know it. as long you keep writing you will get more readers and you might be able to do more than just writing blogs. i am so proud of you!

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